Fierce and Fabulous- or, The South Bronx and Connecticut
I remember getting the invitation to my aunt’s “Fierce at 40” birthday party in the Bronx in 2003. Shahzad, my boyfriend at the time, noticed how excited I was to attend and to introduce him to her and whoever else. He said he never saw me so excited and giddy before. We took a long train ride from Brooklyn to make it and I know how funny that sounds because I know it's not an incredibly long distance comparatively speaking. But to us city folks who mainly rely on trains to get around, it feels like a trek. In 1991's “ Hanging with the Homeboys ”, Doug E. Doug’s character Willie (who lives in the Bronx) is asked to go to Brooklyn for a job interview. “Brooklyn?!” he exclaims. “That's like on the other side of the WORLD!” Now we all know that Brooklyn is not located at the opposite end of the world from the Bronx. They're about 20 miles apart from each other. According to the little globe in my living room "the other side of the world...